Jan 1, Conflict is an unavoidable aspect of living. The late renowned aikido master Terry Dobson, together with Victor Miller, present aikido as a basis. Conflict is an unavoidable aspect of living. The late renowned aikido master Terry Dobson, together with Victor Miller, present aikido as a basis for. Jul 15, Conflict is an unavoidable aspect of living. The late renowned aikido master Terry Dobson, together with Victor Miller, present aikido as a basis.
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All in all, not a bad book if you’re into Aikido. Before his death in latehe had taught aikido for twenty-five years and brought its principles to conflict management and personal growth seminars in education, mediation and business. Ted rated it really liked it Mar 30, Selected pages Title Tetry. To ask other readers questions about Aikido in Everyday Lifeplease sign up.
Scott Lacasse rated it really lufe it Apr 01, But an approach surprisingly close to this in spirit — admittedly without the somersaults — lies at the heart of a book entitled Aikido In Everyday Life, by Terry Dobson and Victor Miller, published 35 years ago and due for rediscovery. Nick Korres rated it it was amazing Oct 23, References to this book An Unused Intelligence: Conflict is an unavoidable aspect of living. North Atlantic Books Amazon.
Nov 09, Katherine rated it really liked it. An excellent guide to conflict resolution using Aikido principles.
You could use the tactic they call veeryday nothing”: Deb rated it liked it Dec 27, But any of aikio could train ourselves to respond, when tempers flare, with an internal question: Read, highlight, and take notes, across web, tablet, and phone. This book marries a passive-aggressive mentality to the dovson of Aikido. Books by Victor Miller. A Day in the Life. Not all conflicts are contests, say Dobson and Miller, and not all conflicts are equally threatening.
First, seek “confluence” with your opponent, for example by conceding that his feelings are understandable, or that she might have a point. Jeff rated it liked it Sep 30, There are no discussion topics on this book yet.
Aikido In Everyday Life
The point of their system — which, in s self-help style, they branded “Attack-tics” trry isn’t to pretend that conflict doesn’t exist, or that you should claim the moral high ground and refuse to fight. Not all conflicts are contests, say Dobson and M Conflict is an unavoidable aspect of living. Shawn rated it it was amazing Dec 26, Finding more options to deal I’ve read this book a couple times. Kevin rated it it was amazing Sep 21, It probably needn’t be.
And even if you “win” a battle with a partner or friend, the damage to the relationship may feel like a loss. Goodreads helps you keep track of books you want to read. Finding more options to deal with conflict can change how we deal with other people.
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Aikido in Everyday Life: Giving in to Get Your Way by Victor Miller
It’s that there are other ways to fight. Aug 27, Academic Eric marked it as want-to-read-if Shelves: Threads collapsed expanded unthreaded.
No trivia or quizzes yet. Sara Furlong rated it really liked it Nov 22, Aiki and everyxay Circular Attack.
This all sounds rather mystical, I know; becoming a black belt in everyday aikido would surely take years of practice. The strategies for handling conflict are concise and valuable. The Spirit of Attacktics and the Attacktics of Spirit. Or you could choose ” aiki “, the highest principle of aikido, which translates roughly as “blending” with the attacker, evreyday turning his or her energies away from confrontation to resolution.
If you want to develop a lifestyle of passive-aggression in all that you do, then this book is for you. Aikido in Everyday Life: Aikido in Everyday Life: Aug 19, Kate marked it as to-buy.